Out of all the groups I have been in, the adjourning stage has always been the hardest if the group was high-performing. I was always relieved when I was able to say good-bye to group members that were frustrating and made whatever task we were working on harder than it should have been. There was one job I had in college that allowed me to have personal goals, as well as work on team goals each day. We had team leaders who were constantly encouraging us to do better and there were incentives for when we did well. We did a lot of activities to get to know everyone and the leaders were all organized and truly cared about what they were doing. I really enjoyed working with everyone and when the time came for me to quit the job I was very sad. I left because my school schedule conflicted with their hours, but found another job that was similar, but there was no sense of teamwork and the leaders at this job clearly did not care about how well we did as a team, nor how well each of us did personally. It affected my own job performance because I didn't feel connected with anyone and didn't feel like it mattered how well I did. I was not upset when I was able to leave this job and I no longer talked to anyone from this office, unlike at my old office when I still talked to a lot of the people I worked with.
I am not sure how adjourning this program will be for me because I have not had the opportunity to meet anyone in person and each class has had different people. I have enjoyed getting to know a few people better that I have had multiple classes with, but I do not feel I will be terribly upset when I am finished and no longer know what is happening with my classmates. I have had a positive experience with everyone I have had classes with and hope that everyone is able to pursue the goals they have after graduating.
I always think that we will meet again so no need to be sad wjhen adjourning. I use to be that way but my mom always said Don't cry, don't be sad you'll see me just as much as you did when you was growing up. When I went off to college I thought the world was ending, but my family and I adjourned for a little while during my stay on campus.
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